How to Give Guys Head

Giving great head to guys is kind of an art. You can get pretty good at it if you just figure out what you need to change in your behaviour during the blow job, and what other details you should throw in to make it a truly unforgettable experience.

One thing that fascinates me is how many women out there live under the impression that they are “amazing” at giving head just because he came – that doesn’t mean that the blow job was great – it doesn’t mean anything. Most women out there lack a good attitude and good technique to make the blow job really, really good. After over two decades of getting head – I finally decided to go out there and teach women how to do it properly and how to satisfy their man, because a good blow job is hard to find – so let’s make it better, together.


Here are 3 simple tips that will already make you better when it comes to giving guys head.

One – Eye Contact

I’m not talking about just giving him a few glances here and there. I’m talking about truly gazing into him, so he can see passion and love in your eyes. Bring him in, hypnotize him with your look, then from time to time hold his shaft and look at it with passion, as if you’re looking at diamonds and you are fascinated how beautiful they are. Guys are visual – and giving them looks like that will spark something special in them which will result in an orgasm you maybe can’t even handle (until I teach you how).

Two – More Pressure = More pleasure

The lack of pressure is the number one reason why most girls don’t know how to give guys great head. That’s the number one reason the guy has a soft/bad erection, the number one reason why he can’t orgasm – and the number one reason why some guys LOSE their erection during the blow job. Not enough pressure.

So just by being a bit more aggressive and having a tighter grip around his shaft, stroking it, licking it and sucking it harder – will make a major difference in the quality of the blow job. Try it for yourself.

Three – Moaning

Some girls are just too quiet when giving head. That’s crap. You don’t convey a good attitude when you’re just quiet and sucking, it seems boring – and then guys start getting into their head (something you don’t want) and thinking about stuff like “oh, looks like she doesn’t enjoy it, it’s making her feel bad, she’s just doing it as a chore” – and that is when everything starts going downhill.

So – start moaning, suck loud – don’t be afraid of the noises you make, believe it or not, the noises from sucking his penis are super attractive to 99% of the guys, even if they sound stupid to you. Talk dirty to him and moan, moan a lot – combine moaning with good eye contact and I guarantee that blow job will be A LOT more effective and pleasureable than any other blow job you ever gave him.

- written by your resident blow job instructor, Jack

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