When you’re giving a guy head, you first need to relax. Don’t worry if you mess up, it’s not the end of the world. It’s normal that he won’t orgasm every time, just accept it and be cool with it. Emotions tend to jump from person to person, so when you get nervous and all hyped up – he’ll also get more nervous. And you don’t want that happening. You want him to relax, to be able to enjoy the experience. (Well sometimes you might be using a different blow job 
style, but let’s say you just want to have some nice, relaxing time after a long week of work).
Get him into a comfortable position, get him to relax. Maybe even drink some wine, chat nonchalantly and be seductive with him. He’ll know what’s going on after a few looks. You need to get him mentally prepared and you don’t want him in his head. And you shouldn’t be in your head either. Thinking is the number one reason most women give bad head – they’re overanalyzing things and just thinking, and thinking and thinking while giving head – and making these “why didn’t he orgams yet?” and “am i doing it right?” faces which aren’t pleasant – AND put pressure on the guy.
style, but let’s say you just want to have some nice, relaxing time after a long week of work).Get him into a comfortable position, get him to relax. Maybe even drink some wine, chat nonchalantly and be seductive with him. He’ll know what’s going on after a few looks. You need to get him mentally prepared and you don’t want him in his head. And you shouldn’t be in your head either. Thinking is the number one reason most women give bad head – they’re overanalyzing things and just thinking, and thinking and thinking while giving head – and making these “why didn’t he orgams yet?” and “am i doing it right?” faces which aren’t pleasant – AND put pressure on the guy.
